“Some people come in our life as blessings. Others come in our life as lessons.” -Mother Theresa Life lessons come in different forms, from joys, successes to failures and even broken relationships. Moving on and starting over was something I wasn't expecting to endure. But it happened. And I would be lying if I said the process was easy and smooth sailing. There were good and of course, not-so-good days but through it all, one thing remained constant, the love received from my two boys, Hoshi and Zen. Lucky for me, I had them to lick off the salty tears. They were more than just my four legged companions, they were my anchors of hope. Despite the boys not saying one word through the tears, their actions helped to heal my heart and soul. Every single day, I learned valuable lessons on love, on healing, and on forgiveness, all by being their adorable selves. Here are a few: Lesson #1: Hoshi lives in complete darkness, yet walks with pride and confidence. He doesn't let obstacles stop him from moving forward. Lesson #2: Zen was abandoned by his previous family and left to walk the streets on his own. Despite experiencing a loss, he never gave up on love. Lesson #3: Hoshi focuses on his strengths. Rather than dwelling on what he doesn't have, he works with what he has and maximizing his other abilities...his ability to hear, smell, taste, and love. Hoshi thrives every single day! Lesson #4: Zen's health is compromised, having been diagnosed with an enlarged heart and pulmonary edema. Despite having complications, he focuses his energy on what he's able to do…breathe, eat, sleep, drink, play, walk, etc., never taking for granted that he is able-bodied. Lesson #5: Hoshi and Zen love unconditionally, without judgment, insecurities, and doubts. They are loyal and kind, never holding a grudge. They welcome with enthusiasm, asking for nothing in return. What matters most is what is happening at this very moment, not tomorrow, not yesterday, but now. In life, there will always be opposing views…luck or curse, blessing or lesson, good or bad, joy or pain, etc. How we choose to react, rather than choosing to dwell, is a more meaningful way of dealing with the cards at hand.
To my sweet angels, thank you for blessing my life. In a life full of uncertainties, one thing remains constant…you boys are my world and I would not trade one moment shared with you both. God gave me you as beautiful reminder that true unconditional love exists. Mommy loves you!
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